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Naked and Not Ashamed

Finding Hope in Trials
A raw, honest account of walking through a marriage that wasn't what she prayed for — and finding God as Father, Friend, Lawyer, Advocate, Provider, Healer, and Sustainer along the way.
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About the Book

A story I was reluctant to tell.

When I was younger, growing up, I had envisioned my marriage to be the one made in heaven. I had discussed with some of my friends that we talked about marriage together. I had thought I would have a blissful home with the help of God. God spoke clearly to me and He said, "Your marriage will be a blessing to generations" — armed with His word, I kept myself for this man that God will bring into my life that we can do life together.

On the other hand, too, there were three revelations that were clear warnings also that the enemy clearly had a plan to divert my journey. On this journey of wrong marriage, I have found God to be my Father, Friend, Lawyer, Advocate, Provider, Healer, Sustainer, and much more.

Naked And Not Ashamed was the word He gave me when He instructed me to write a book with the title. Initially I was reluctant — I didn't want to put out my life story like this. But He kept giving me a vision of many that will be liberated.

I have obeyed. His is to take the glory.

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